
By Pastor O Efueye·Bestseller
Different by Design
Marriage: Two Hearts, One Heartbeat
Pastor O's flagship teaching on what marriage is designed by God to be, and how to build one that thrives even in today's chaos.
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About this book
Marriage was designed by God to illustrate the wonderful, unique relationship between Christ and the Church. In Different by Design, Pastor O lays out the framework that has guided 20+ years of the Aslan Couples' Retreat. Plain-spoken, biblical, and built on lived experience walking with hundreds of couples through preparation, crisis, restoration and joy. Whether you're single, dating, engaged, or 30 years married, this book speaks to where you are and shows where God designed you to go.
Inside
What you’ll walk away with.
- 01
How to fight fair and never go to bed angry
- 02
How men and women communicate differently, and how to bridge that
- 03
The four types of love and the one that never fails
- 04
Setting boundaries with in-laws without damaging the family
- 05
How to stay faithful when temptation feels louder than vows
From the pages
A taste before you read.
01Foundation
Two whole people, complete in Christ, come together to make a phenomenal unit. God never expects two halves to make a whole couple.
02Tending
No marriage just suddenly goes bad. If you keep chipping away at the foundation, one day it will collapse. If you keep adding to a loving relationship, one day it will overflow.
03Speech
Words are like eggs. Once dropped, they can never be retrieved.
04Self-knowledge
A man who does not know himself is not qualified or ready to get married. Before you can recognise your reflection in your wife, you must first know who you are.
05Forgiveness
Forgiveness is not an emotional issue but a volitional one. It is about your will, not your feelings. You forgive because God tells you to.
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